Doing What You Say and the Personal/Professional Line
April 21, 2008
There is a great post over at Management Craft today. I can’t say, “Amen!!!!” enough about it. If you have ever worked for someone who says one thing and does another, you know the frustration that comes along with that type of management style.
I can’t reiterate this point enough. As a manager, don’t make promises that you can’t or won’t keep. Do not say one thing and then do another, or worse, do nothing. The other point that goes along with this is if you make a promise and it is going to take longer than anticipated or something is happening that is affecting what you are doing, let people know. Keep the communication flowing. Be honest. If you slacked off, admit it. If something came up and threw a wrench in the whole plan, let your staff know.
Lisa writes, “Great managers do what others don’t or won’t.” That is 100% true. As managers we have to be the bad guy sometimes. We have to have the uncomfortable conversations. We may have to step completely outside our comfort zones and be people we normally aren’t in the course of a day’s work. And we have to understand that we can’t internalize or take any of it personally.
Great managers do what they say they will, but they also know how to maintain an objective, impersonal perspective. I have learned that I am really bad when having to deal with coworkers who cannot accept constructive or professional criticism. I am very aware of how I give criticism. I keep it simple and cordial. I never make it a personal attack or say it in a way that it could be perceived as such. However, some people cannot separate the professional from the personal and that can cause problems.
Being able to separate the two is a key to success. While I do identify as a librarian and a manager, I know that is not who I am in the core of my being. There is much more to me than what I do for a living and when someone comments or criticizes my job performance, I take it as such.
I wasn’t always like this, and I was much more miserable in my career. The best advice I can give anyone, is do your job to the best of your ability, do what you say you will, and don’t take it personally.